Pain


“I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.”


“They can't hurt you unless you let them.”



“Loving is a feeling that brings both joy and pain to my heart. Joy from being with you, being filled with an emotion so deep and tender that no other feeling can compare. Pain from knowing that I'm so in love, that I'm more vulnerable than I've ever”



“Love means exposing yourself to the pain of being hurt, deeply hurt by someone you trust.”



“People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.”



“There is one pain I often feel, which you will never know. It is caused by the absence of you.”



“Why love if losing hurts so much? I have no answers anymore; only the life I have lived. The pain now is part of the happiness then.”



“Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever.”


“Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.”



“We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.”



“It's no good trying to keep up old friendships. It's painful for both sides. The fact is, one grows out of people, and the only thing is to face it.”




“I cannot stand being awake, the pain is too much”




“Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.”



“Wisdom is nothing more than healed pain.”



It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.




Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs.




Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, sometimes it hurts.



Those who are faithful know only the trivial side of love; it is the faithless who know love's tragedies.



If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have.



Why is it that we don't always recognize the moment love begins, but we always recognize the moment it ends?




In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.


For me, my gift is music, and I would probably play a song for them and let them find something in there that they connect with, because everybody's struggles are different. It's easy for someone who's not going through it to say, 'Oh, well just hang in there,' but I think it's okay to be hurt and crushed and cry and be angry and frustrated - that's all part of it. I think people stopping you from doing that is not helpful at all. It's important to rally around people that love you, because you tend to -- I certainly tend to isolate myself away from people so as to not worry them, but the people that love you worry anyway, so, you may as well rally yourself around them and let them be there for you 'cause there's a huge chance that they'll need you sometime too.




I hate the day, because it lendeth light
To see all things, but not my love to see.



I think people should have the legal right to hurt themselves without fearing that they're going to get locked up for doing so. But on a personal level, if someone I loved was hurting himself or herself in front of me, I would, of course, try to restrain them.



But I have been too deeply hurt, Sam. I tried to save the Shire, and it has been saved, but not for me. It must often be so, Sam, when things are in danger: some one has to give them up, lose them, so that others may keep them.



By our Heavenly Father and only because of God, only because of God. We're like other couples. We do not get along perfectly; we do not go without arguments and, as I call them, fights, and heartache and pain and hurting each other. But a marriage is three of us.


I thought when love for you died, I should die.
It's dead. Alone, most strangely, I live on.




I throw myself into love because I believe in it, but when things don't work you have to take responsibility. You all know things have gone wrong for me. Everybody has laughed, everybody has had a knock at me. It hurts, it always does.




I wish all the mean people, if you want to be mean to each other, just buy a country together and blow each other up. Then we'd have no terrorists left. Like, don't kill innocent people for no reason. It's not fair. We love everybody. We'd even like them if they said they're sorry. It's not fair that innocent people are getting hurt. It makes me sad.




I wrote my children's book because I believe there are children that are hurting and may need to know that there is love out there for them- God's love.



I've worked with people and I've known people that were really competitive but I've always said that I take an Elizabeth Bennett philosophy of life -- I laugh. I love my job but if it means hurting someone, I won't do it.



“Love is like a rose. It looks beautiful on the outside...but there is always pain hidden somewhere.”



“All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.”



“Many of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief that you cannot bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain. What you have not done is feel all you are beyond the pain.”



“Given the choice between the experience of pain and nothing, I would choose pain”



“I believe all suffering is caused by ignorance. People inflict pain on others in the selfish pursuit of their happiness or satisfaction. Yet true happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment, which in turn must be achieved through the cultiv”



“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your own estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”



“Maybe if I share the path I walk then a little more of your pain will vanish. I want you to heal, whoever you are. I don't care what pain you've brought the world, I just want yours to subside. No matter what, your path is yours. Dont follow misery or worry. Devote every moment of your life to improving your dreams. Love your world. Cherish the good you do. Let go of hatred. Dream of love.”



“Pain is such an uncomfortable feeling that even a tiny amount of it is enough to ruin every enjoyment.”



“Painful as it may be, a significant emotional event can be the catalyst for choosing a direction that serves us-and those around us - more effectively. Look for the learning.”




“I've never tried to block out the memories of the past, even though some are painful. I don't understand people who hide from their past. Everything you live through helps to make you the person you are now.”




“A mighty pain to love it is, and 'tis a pain that pain to miss; but of all the pains, the greatest pain is to love, but love in vain.”



“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.”

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